The underlying dynamics of rejection - ARTICLE

There is a fundamental misunderstanding about the dating scene: When you get rejected, it has nothing to do with love.

It is a power mechanism.

It is battle between two energies.

The first energy is your desire, life force, will power.

The second energy is a minute emotion projected in your mind space. This minute emotion is a mind pattern. It says something like: "I don't like you and I don't want to go out with you".

This negative emotion is projected by someone else.

Here is what will happen if you don't show your power at that moment: This minute negative emotion will take root in your mind. It will grow, make "babies" in your mind. Before you notice it, you are taken into a stream of negative thoughts and beliefs which block your mind and simply kill your life force. One person's rejection did generate a limit in your mind which was not there before.

Here is what happens now if you express your fighting power in rejection situations.

The first step: You go prepared. You have an emotional strategy to deal with rejection.

The second step: You react straight away. You simply do not tolerate any negative emotion to come inside. A battle goes on. If you loose, it can eventually kill your life force. Don't tolerate someone else's negative emotion in your mind. Kill it!

I know these words are hard and direct. This is what it is. Put it in the balance. This is about your mind space, life force, power and energy. When someone rejects you, it's a simple battle for power. It is a measuring of who is stronger psychically. If you let someone else's negative emotion impact on you, you loose the battle. Simple!