If you feel attraction and flirt building up with a guy you work with, here is how to stand in it:
In 90% of the cases, an office flirt is only a flirt.
This is where it stays.
It does not need to become anything else.
There are many reasons for that but we won't go into it here.
The question is:
How do you flirt and how do you make this experience enjoyable first?
The goal is simple:
Play the game and don't worry about the outcome.
When you play the game means respond to his invitations, tease him, be fun, give rhythm to it, challenge him if you can, etc.
You need to do one thing:
Shift from the "I want a relationship with him" to the "Let's have some light fun" (I am talking about fun, not intimacy).
Flirting is a key life skill.
When you are good at it, you enjoy life a lot more.
If you feel you miss the skills, go online and set up a free profile on a dating site.
It is the best place to train your flirting instinct.
Next step, don't focus on him alone.
Flirt with other guys in the office parties or other social events.
Being exclusive with flirting can become boring because it makes you clingy and dependent.
The moment you see him flirting with other girls, you need other options to be able to stay on top of it.
Enjoy, gain confidence, experiment and follow your instinct.