That's again thinking about him.
As long as you are trapped in that pattern, you still "give" him energy.
How about you stepping out of your comfort zone and activating your social power.
There is not much you can do about his life but there is certainly a lot you can do about yours!
The moment you take the step and feed YOUR world, you'll notice that whatever he does no longer touches you.
That's EMOTIONAL FREEDOM!
That's EXACTLY where you want to be.