Be flirty and sexy.
In other terms, play the game!
Guys get turned on when they recognize your beauty, radiance and feel sexually attracted to you.
The main mistake you can make in the dating world is wanting to be loved but not expressing the qualities that make you attractive.
You can do a quick checklist with who you are and what you offer.
Check your qualities one by one:
Attractive or not attractive?
If it is not attractive, get rid of it and replace it with something that is.
If the thing you find unattractive are physical features you can't change, learn to love them and guys will love them to.
To your radiance and beauty!