My ex flirts with me - What does this mean? - TIP

My ex flirts with me. What does this mean?

If he just loves me as a friend, why is he hitting on me and flirting with me all the time? Could it possibly be that he feels more then a just friends basis and doesn't want to admit it to himself ? I just want to get over my feelings but with him confusing me I'm finding it hard to get over him.

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Hi,

When you have been years with someone, the natural flirting or relating reflexes and instincts are those of lover to lover, not friend to friend.

I find that with exes, flirting is what comes naturally. Often, this flirting is more a way of relating than a real invitation to start again a relationship.

You smile and flirt because it is fun and it wakes up this inner thrill and excitement.

In a recent article I read that 50-70 % of people fantasize about having sex with their ex when they see each other.

These natural pulsions are there. The question is: what to do with them?

Good luck