How can I get my boy friend to become more sexually active?
How can I get my boy friend to become more sexually active and not so shady when it comes to touching me and things?
Take small steps and focus on fun rather than sex. Flirting is great and keeps this light.
It might take a while for him to open up and there could be some hidden blockages. Find out what's holding him back if he is open to tell you. Don't push him or challenge him. talk about sex in general and get a feeling of what is going on in him. Don't ask him direct questions. Talk about something you read in a magazine: "Hey, did you know that Swedish people have an average of 12 partners in a life time?"
It's a very sensitive area but if you turn the whole sex thing into just a flirting game, it will be more easy for him. Focus on romance first. Once the light attraction is on, it will give him a safer ground to take action.
Take it slowly and focus on the foreplay